Swingers For Threesomes: Creating The Perfect Profile By Lifestyle Expert Robyn
There is a place for the single gentleman in the swinging
lifestyle. Singles are usually viewed as the accessories in swinging, not the
core. However, singles can provide a very pleasurable outlet for couples as
well. Single males, though, have become more prominent on the swinging scene in
the past few years. Here are some profile pointers to help get you started
You Are Going on a Swinging Interview.
A great analogy to keep at the forefront of your mind is that of the
typical interview. When couples browse for single males to join their
fantasies, think of what they might like when searching for ‘applicants’.
During any interview, your screeners are going to want to know what you can do
for them, and how you are better than the competition. Think about what your
job would be and how your online profile should best convey your qualifications
and personality. Confidence wins over cockiness and a respect for the position
needed is a must. Prepare to put your best foot forward and sell yourself to
those who are in the market for your services.
To begin with, you should have a well-developed application for the
position- your profile. Think of this is as your resume. Except this time, you
get to have a lot more fun developing your image. For a single male, it is
especially crucial to your quest. Online swinging is full of single males
seeking to sell themselves, and the supply far outweighs the demand. Your
profile simply cannot be ordinary.
A quality photo album is perhaps your best bet for catching the eyes of
interested ladies. Your pictures should reflect who you are. If you post
multiple photos of your crotch, or display the myriad angles of your genetalia,
you will crash and burn at the outset. Be tasteful. Post full body shots,
face shots and candid everyday shots of yourself. You can certainly opt to
showcase your equipment, but keep those pictures to a bare minimum and keep them
out of your main picture slot. Your first photo should be the best
representation of yourself. A classy clothed photo can communicate confidence.
A professional headshot or a formally attired full body photo exudes a sense of
sophistication. Now, think of what a close up photo of your naked manhood
conveys. Hopefully, this point is lucid enough.
Written Profile With More Than Just the Obvious Information.
Your profile should attest to your character, personality and attitude.
Steer away from profiles that look like this:
I’m a single
looking for fun. I’m an in shape professional with brown hair and brown eyes. I
like to go out and meet people and have fun. I love bedtime fun and pleasing
the ladies. I am searching for a fun attractive female or a couple who likes to
have a good time.
Not only is this profile short and
non-descript, but it could be a description of the majority of the male
population. This gives no insight to the author of the profile and has nothing
to distinguish it from the thousands of other bios.
Here’s an example of a more comprehensive
and detailed single’s profile:
Take a look at
my pictures to get a general idea of my appearance. A healthy lifestyle is
important to me and a person’s habits say a lot. I am financial manager with a
wild side. Since my job doesn’t bring me the greatest thrills life has to
offer, I make up for it in other ways. I have a penchant for trying all things
adrenaline related, so roller coasters, sky-diving and white water rafting are a
perfect fix. These things aren’t too shabby for keeping up the physical
appearance either I’m a pretty multi-faceted guy. Why am I here? I’m not here
with a primary focus on ‘getting laid’. Mostly, the people in the lifestyle are
just more fun than friends that are made in the vanilla arena. I just love to
be around people who don’t harbor inhibitions and I enjoy the candid nature of
others who can talk about anything and everything without fear of reprisal. I’m
open to joining ladies or couples for intimate encounters, but I certainly don’t
expect it. It’s a known fact that single males have earned a slight reputation
for being pushy, and I do not intend to further that reputation. You can always
expect nothing less than respectful behavior from me. I’m always open to
chatting on IM, and a no-pressure night out of your choosing.
This profile delves deeper into the author’s
personality. This isn’t a blanket essay that could be applied to the majority
of the male population. The latter profile conveys a sense of personality and
depth. Mind you, it’s not a life story that someone will be seeking when
combing through single males, just a thoughtful overview of a more
‘dimensional’ person with whom they can enjoy themselves.
Although this is just the start in your
lifestyle journey, quality profiles can start you off on the right foot for
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